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MUM Live are teachings done on my Mutual Understanding Method Facebook page.  The live recordings are then posted here. They are listed in their order of recording - with the oldest first.

Reacting In A Time of Stress

Who Did I Marry?

Keeping Score

Keeping Score Part 2

Debt/Debtor Relationships

Meeting Emotional Needs

Love Bank

6 Indicators of Divorce

6 Indicators of Divorce Part 2

One Word that Changes Everything for Your Marriage

Stuck Marriages

Stuck Marriages Part 2

The Best Move You'll Ever Make In Your Marriage

4 Social Styles - Sympathizer, Personalizer, Empathizer, Analyzer

8 Things Mutual Understanding & Trading Places Will Do For Your Marriage

8 Things Mutual Understanding & Trading Places Will Do For Your Marriage

                                                    Part 2

18 Tips That Will Strengthen (and maybe even save) Your Marriage

Tuning Into Self Talk - The First Step To A Healthy You (#1)

Tuning Into Self Talk - The First Step To A Healthy You (#2)

Tuning Into Self Talk - The First Step To A Healthy You (#3)

Moving Past Your Past

Moving Past Your Past - Part 2

Have A Good Fight

4 Critical Elements of A Good Fight

Feelings...Are You Leading Them?  Or, Are They Leading You?

Crucial Conversations...

Crucial Conversations...Part 2

How To Notice When Safety Is At Risk

Successful Marriages Are Created Through...

4 Skills of Intimate Conversation

Fight Fair and Repair

Trust & Commitment - What Is It Really?

10 Trust Breakers

7 Ways To Start the New Year Fresh With Your Spouse

Happiness Is A Choice

Celebrate Differences

Love & Respect

Speaking Your Spouse's Love Language

The Power of Commitment

5 Top Reasons for Communication Breakdown In

Most Marriages

The Golden Communication Rule

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The 10 Distortions That Trigger Conflict

The Right Perspective of Marriage

Lies That Sabotage Your Relationships

How To Become Whole

How To Become Whole - Part 2

The Three R's Every Family Teaches

15 Ways You Can Refresh Your Relationship

7 Types of Rest You Need to Actually Feel Recharged

Getting Off the Crazy Cycle

Getting Off the Crazy Cycle - Part 2

15 Reasons Why Spouses Feel Like Strangers

After Years of Marriage

15 Reasons Why Spouses Feel Like Strangers

After Years of Marriage - Part 2

Say What You Mean...

Understand What You Hear

Say What You Mean...
Understand What You Hear - Part 2

Six Basic Skills for Successful Communication

Six Basic Skills for Successful Communication - Part 2

Why We Secretly Love to Hate

Empathetic Listening

14 Skills of Empathetic Listening

5 Steps to Maximize Your Differences

7 Ways to Build Trust in a Relationship

8 Communication Exercises

State of the Union Meetings

A.T.T.U.N.E. Conversation Model

A.T.T.U.N.E. Conversation Model (Part 2)

A.T.T.U.N.E. - The Role of the Listener

A.T.T.U.N.E. - The Role of the Listener (Part 2)

A.T.T.U.N.E. - The Role of the Listener (Part 3)

Stress Reducing Conversations

Turn Toward Each Other

Essential Conversations For A Lifetime of Love

8 Dates That Will Make A Difference In Your Marriage

Date #1 - Trust & Committment

Date #2 - Addressing Conflict

Date #3 - Sex & Intimacy

Date #4 - Work & Money

Date #5 - Family

Date #6 - Fun & Adventure

Date #7 - Growth & Spirituality

Date #8 - Dreams

Lovers to Roomies

The 5 Stages of A Relationship

The 10 Secrets of Happy Couples

7 Threats to Oneness & Intimacy

7 Threats to Oneness & Intimacy - Part 2

Threat #4 - Selfishness

Threat #5 - Trial, Troubles & Tribulations

Threat #6 - Extramarital "Affairs"

Threat #7 - Unrelenting Pressure of A Fast-Paced Lifestyle

The Most Common Problem In Marriage

Go To Bed Mad

Love Is Not Enough

10 Lies About Marriage

The Secret to Lasting Love

Love Buster #1 - Selfish Demands

4 Guidelines for Successful Negotiations In Marriage

7 Steps To An Effective End-of-Day Conversation

11 Major Marriage Killers

How To Complain So Your Spouse Will Listen

10 Things That Can Trigger Anxiety 
(and how to avoid them)

Managing Conflict: Solvable vs. Perpetual Problems

There's An Elephant In the Room - Evict, Don't Adopt

Your Communication Toolbox?

11 Practical Steps for Building Trust

Trust?

10 Ways to Connect in 10 Minutes or Less

Taking Ownership of Ourselves

Take Control of the Emotional Energy
When Conversations Get Tough

Crock-Pot Relationships

Learning to Listen

We Need A Mirror

Move From Nice to Kind

Rust Free Relationships

5 Common Assumptions That
Cause Conflict in Marriage

Being Selfless vs Being Passive

Differences: Part 1 Accommodate

Differences: Part 2 Eliminate, Appreciate, Celebrate

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